Whoo Peo(ple)

Inequality of human kind. Takes on many types - gender, race, age, income etc. I think the main underlying factor is cos ALL of us take everyone's existence for granted, in some way or another. Most of us are placed here on earth for a reason. Ok fine. Too big a picture. Let's jus shrink it to the minor stuff we come across in our general daily lives tt leads on to that... (from yrs of wat i've seen and heard)

A) At work R you guilty of goin into the pantry and offering your boss coffee but not your fellow colleagues? Well, then, in my view you SUCK. But i can't blame your sorry arse for adhering to social norms. Of course it'd work in an environment where there's an ego dumb boss and sucker smart employee. Survival of the fittest they say. Ooh i hate politics. Never did, never will. It exists EVERYWHERE you look n i've seen it since eons ago. I choose to ignore it but i don't doubt its presence. For me, it's a MOOD and not a RANK thing, i offer WHEN i feel like it, not WHO. This mentality may or may not have worked for me, but at least, TO ME, i'm keeping it REAL. N somehow, in the bottom of my heart, i think THIS will prevail. Yea, you MAY take a longer time to climb up the ladder in some cases, but you won't falter cos you've got a strong base of principles. I don't CARE if you are genuinely capable or not, I DUN EAT THIS SHIT. Anyway, truly capable pple don't resort to unscrupulous means. But they may call this street smarts, sorry hor, NO lor. I CONDEMN you two-headed snakes!

B) In relationships (all kinds) Confirm will take for granted lor! WHY? Cos NO ONE has an equal amount of affinity for the other. There will be someone liking/ cherishing the other party more. Relationships, Friendships, whatever. As much as my idealistic side protests, i know this is true. Assumptions set in and when not clarified, will lead to many misunderstandings and brokened r/s. Must try to clear things up, but never push it. When the party being taken for granted, wakes and realises, there's the start of the pitt fall. N sldn't pple still have their own space after bein in a r/s? Like still hang out with frens all.. Most pple when getting attached Disappear n i find tt damn sad. Two pple sld be TWO wholes when getting together, not the 'you complete me' shit, then break how? DIE huh. Thus, as i grow older, i've learnt to appreciate those pple whom i truly call FRIENDS more than ever. Everyone has a set of standard guidelines for whom they regard as so and I do too. Anyway, this category is far too complex to really head in.. so ya.

*Oh yes, do you realised if a gal is being bullied by a guy, she's a victim; but if vice versa, the guy's a SNAG?*

Thus is the very simplistic view of most asians in our society. Lack of guts and balls to say what they mean and feel, shut up and kill overselves due to societal views and pressures. WE SLD REALLY BREAK FREE FROM THIS RUT! I don't mean we sld jus be wild animals and roar but like there sld always be room for discussion, subtly but surely. We should not cower in front of authority but show our confidence when DUE. Cos if people see you can MAKAN (eat) they SURE makan! Be firm and stand up for yourselves! (Btw, i feel sorry for those insecure shitheads tt think they're so great while hiding under some name or another else's. If you're there, you're there, dun need to HAO LIAN one) Besides, i'm a strong believer that respect is EARNED. If kena found out wrong, dun TAICHI (push) here or there, just sincerely say SORRY.. very hard IZZIT? If that's hard for you, you're NOT MEANT FOR BIG THINGS. Period. N i ABSOLUTELY DETEST those people who flow with the wind.. Dun you have A MIND OF YOUR OWN? Be yourself but The key is to ADAPT, BE FLEXIBLE, not a PUSHOVER. N pls hor, those pple who like to act smart in front of others whom you THINK are not as smart, you can really eat shit and die. Cheap thrill sibo?

Oh, i could go on forever, it's a never ending debate. (no worries, i'm not feeling pent up or what.. i'm jus sickened by behaviors of some pple but I SAY WHAT I WANT cos it's MY BLOG)

Moving on now...
Here's how my weekend went!



Friend's Bday party held at some ZO card room, next to liang court's carpark! Had booze sponsored! Here's the link for his cool bday event.. check it out.. http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=noolnai23





Thou i didn't know many people there, but i met some mutual frens! There is the bday boy!! Recognise him from 'An Eye for a Guy 2' ? He had some of his frens from the show there too.. but i duno them so never take pics.. Ladida.. Color coded tee with his bEEr...




Played ONE round of mahjong, cos we usurped the table while the initial players were taking a break.. didn't play money unlike them!

Singing the bday song with cake!


$$$$$$$$$$$$$




Walked thru the walking street of Brisbane in the night to the Casino! Here's some stage thing they set up cos i didn't see it here the last time i came!




Casino! I've been to Brisbane thrice; first time i took the train to Gold Coast, Surfers' Paradise, then the last time i jus shopped along the city street! Now i visit the Casino.. not many people there at this time though.. N alas cannot take pics again! I hate this rule! But i sneaked two. ha.

I don't like gambling! IF i do, i always have a limit of how much i'm willing to lose. It's better than going on and on with no direction. Tsk.




Ooh ooh.. Crazy Clark's discount Variety Store! It's kinda like our $1.99 shop or Japan's 100Yen shop... I bought Three Albums! Euphoria and Judge Jules Clubbed (Trance!) and Soul Legends (Jazz). Tt's like SEVEN discs for Aus$29.95! They ain't new but so what.. whoo hoo..




Yes! The few of my fave stores in Brisbane!! SUPRE is number ONE! I spent heaps there! N i didn't even intend to shop! My bag was so full i swear it was goin to burst! I duno wat's wrong with me.. i'm definitely spending more and saving less than before! *ponders*? :P




The galfren who wanted to walk the streets and i went along.. i shouldn't have! Ended up spending more than her! *gulp* But aiya, i only really shop in States and Australia.. but of course Aus is cheaper thou i like states better!

Cool Shades huh? I haven't got a WHITE framed one.. i didn't get this one here.. will look ard somemore!